Theory of Mind Quiz
Take the quiz to see how you would respond to disappointed, hurt, or frustration when perceiving a disconnect with others.
Theory of Mind
Good Theory of Mind is something most of us can develop. Asking for and giving clear information is something we can all improve at. And when in doubt, read the room for what is not being said and when that’s unclear, simply ask.
Conversation Killers #3: Tit-for-Tat
The technical name for tit-for-tat is “tu quoque” or “you also.” It’s the fallacy where we dodge accountability for our own behaviour by pointing out someone else’s. Does it work? Nope.
New RMFT Credential
Registered Marriage and Family Therapist May 5, 2026. Today I’m celebrating a meaningful milestone here at Pear Tree. Ten years, two offices, and many lessons later, I am now an RMFT rather than an MMFT (masters in marriage and family therapy). Day-to-day, nothing...
Tool #18: The Ice Cream Scoop of Character and Context
The Ice Cream Scoop of Character and Context doesn’t require us to excuse anyone’s behaviour or pretend we’re not annoyed. It just helps us portion out responsibility more accurately between person and situation.